Patchwork Quilt
“I am fearfully and wonderfully made” Psalm 139:14
My Pastor has had us repeating this phrase on and off for a few months now. At first it was a little silly but still fun. The first day we said it, our pastor explained why were are fearfully and wonderfully made, I believed it.
I was in a good mood, the day had been average, and I didn’t feel like a complete failure. I also didn’t ponder it too hard.
Today when he told us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made, I didn’t feel it. I was thinking “yes, I may have been made that way, but boy have I screwed it up since.”
That thought is self-destructive, I know it is. I get in these ruts where, I feel like all I’m doing is asking forgiveness rather than spreading joy. When I’m in that place I feel like I mess up what God had intended.
My kids are great, but they’re a handful (yes all kids can be I know). They all go through different phases and lately the phases seem to be ganging up on me. I want to scream “I need an adult!”
My husband, the only one I have regular long conversations with is working nights and hasn’t had a day off in a while. So my need for conversations has no place to go. Yes I talk to my kids but it is different.
I know I should call a friend but I always feel like it would be the wrong time. I might put them out if I call them “just to talk.” It seems like there’s never a good reason for me to pick up the phone.
So add the frustration of not being able to talk about everyday life to an adult, plus my kids running around like wild banshees while their Dad is sleeping, and you get – yup you guessed it – a yelling Mom.
So I screamed at them. I asked them four times to help me pick up. They chose not to. Then they started playing ball in the living room instead of cleaning and I lost it. After I yelled at them it only took ten minutes for them to finish.
After they finished, one of them accidentally knocked rice over in the pantry. At this point there was no wonderfully made left in me. So I started cleaning it by myself. I told them to go out and play to get some of their energy out while Kathy and Nico were still napping. I needed a breather as much as they did.
The pantry needed to be cleaned anyway. Nothing like mindless cleaning to get you thinking about all the should-of’s in your life. I started thinking about how I’m making myself into a patchwork quilt. God made me fearfully and wonderfully and I keep messing it up. Then I ask for forgiveness and he puts a new square on to restore me from sin. I’m not the same as before but I’m restored.
I love patchwork quilts. My Grandma makes the most beautiful designed quilts. It’s amazed me from when I was little girl of all her talents. As I was cleaning the pantry, I got to thinking about, why I picture myself as a plain ragged square quilt. When I should imagine one of those beautiful and wonderful ones my Grandmother made(like the picture above).
I guess I still need to work on believing that I’m wonderfully made.