“Look with your eyes open” That’s one of my most common phrases. I just can’t help myself, when my kids are standing on-top of what they are looking for, and can’t find it. It seems ridiculous to me that they can’t find the shoes that are right on the shoe rack! “No not the bottom shelf the top shelf! Right there! Ug.”
It’s so frustrating that on a daily basis I have conversations about telling them to use their eyes as they look for something. I know my mom had this same conversation with me when I was young, as do most moms. The fight is real.
I’m not sure if we are just more observant as adults, or if it was all the conversations that our mothers had with us to “look with your eyes open” as kids, that makes us more able to find things. Whichever the case, someday I think my kids will be able to find their own shoes. I really hope for their future spouse’s sake too.
In the fight of teaching kids how to find things, I was humbled. I started wondering how many times Father God has wanted to say to us, “Jenny the path is right in front of you. No, right in front of…”
Let’s be honest, we aren’t always the most observant when God is trying to point something out to us, at least I’m not. Sometimes God has had to hit me upside the proverbial head to get my attention. Then as I’m rubbing my head thinking “ok ok, I know, I’ve got it now,” I still can question my next step.
The path seems to be right in front of me when I’m paying attention. When I let the outside world distract me, that broad path God provides seems to be lost.
Just like when my kids are concentrating on what they are trying to find, miraculously, they can find it. Although, when they let what’s going on around them start influencing their concentration. It’s a lost cause.
The easiest way to hear from God and where your path should be is daily prayer. Stay focused on God and you will always be able to find your path. Easier said than done, I know. Just think how hard it is for a five year old to find what is right in front of them. We need to give our kids gentle guidance as our Father has given us.